Appreciation is the best complement!!!

So when was the last time you appreciated someone for their efforts..?

When you do something for which you feel that you have done more than your capacity and feel like you need an appreciation for what you did, that’s how others feel. Learn to appreciate even the small thing what others do by putting in their time and effort. It would definitely encourage them to do even more than their potential.
The root of joy is gratefulness… It’s not joy that makes us grateful; It’s the gratitude that makes us joyful. #Inspired

By appreciating someone you’re not going to lose your dignity or respect, But the gratitude in you and the happiness in them would grow enormously. After all we were born with nothing and we will never take anything with us when we die. So never let your ego dominate you. Even a small credit would satisfy a one’s effort and a small criticism would ruin one’s effort. Speak anything positive in five sentences and anything negative in a single sentence.

People generally criticize something which is not good, But they never appreciate something which is good. If you have bloody rights to criticize something which is not good, it’s your bloody responsibility to appreciate something which is good. Appreciation is the best form of complement one could ever give.

Between deep hatred and shallow love, your subconscious will always choose hatred. That’s why you can process hurt and hatred for years, and yet, every few days you need renewals of expressions of love. Else it hurts. See the irony! You are self sufficient when it comes to keeping your hatred alive, but need external help to keep your love going. The remedy is to learn to experience deep love. Intensify your expressions and demonstrations of love. #Inspired

Drown in love, epitomise love. More importantly, learn to tranquilize hurt and hatred with forgiveness and keep it shallow. Eventually your subconscious will spontaneously choose love over hatred, for the sheer depth of it. It will also begin to choose life situations in congruence with love.

When it comes to love and hatred, people prefer hatred over love just because they have a common myth that hatred needs to be concentrated more, and somehow love will stay forever. But they fail to realise that love needs attention and not hatred.

Not only a very big speech nor a standing ovation would satisfy just a “Well done” would make one happy. So instead of ignoring or criticizing cultivate the habit of appreciating others effort, so later you’ll get the same appreciation for the efforts which you take.

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